Life Doesn’t Stop Just Because You Move to China
Posted on : 11-02-2011 | By : admin | In : Film and Television, General Thoughts, updates
Tags: back in the us, Business, g35, life in america, overwhelmed, selling my car, short film, stress, stress relief, yin and yang
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This post is just for myself to vent so if you don’t want to read about venting you can just skip this post. haha..
So I returned back to the US after being away for over half a year! I was imagining all the fun, sun, and relaxation I would have when returning to Cali.. unfortunately there was something else waiting for me in Cali… – my mail.
What was in my mail?
Tons of things.. not good things.. bills, past due registration, notices, taxes related, etc.
I’m essentially back in the US for 2.5 weeks, but with the amount of things I have to do and with the time I have I am getting majorly overloaded. This is also in part my own doing so no one’s to blame but myself.
Just because I left for China does not mean all of my life and debt over here stops.. and just because I am not in China does not mean I don’t have work from over there as well.
So far my work has consisted of the following 4 categories:
Personal
Property taxes, mortgage payments, switching statements to e-statements, insurance, vehicle registration, reversing bank charges, opening/closing bank accounts, working out, shopping for things I need to bring back to China, selling my car, making payments…. and even blog posts.. yes believe it or not there are many things I’ve had in mind that I wanted to write about and journal, but haven’t had the time to sit down and capture in writing.
My Business
Bank fees, dealing with attempted fraud, chargebacks, shipping, renewing licenses/permits, accounting, paying taxes, paying contractors, processing custom orders, sorting refunds/returns, tracking orders, etc..
Overseas Job Duties
Though I am in the US I still have to maintain communication with certain business that is in motion. I have been scheduling meetings, playing tetris with flight times and events, tallying up expenses, responding to requests, reading scripts, and so on…
Film
I am making a short film. I know it’s pretty crazy to jam this in in an already busy schedule and on relatively short notice.. but its happening! This is so happening. This has been the excitement in my return to LA. I am working with a friend/director and we are putting together a concept we had 10 months back. This is going to represent just a taste of what we have in mind.. but it should be pretty exciting. For this I have been helping with my part in the casting, story, script, and direction. Where most of my responsibility falls though is on the action choreography and my acting. The audience will essentially be following my character’s narrative.
Now aside from the above 4 things.. I have of course wanted to and needed to hang out with my family, have new years dinners with family/relatives, meet up with friends I haven’t seen in over 6 months, grab drinks with my brother, and… sell my car.
I got the chance to hang out with Andy, Eliver, Jurka, E, hue3, my bro, Hurricane, Mcflyii, Connie, and my cousins since I got back… but there are so many other people I’ve been meaning to see but just not enough time.. plus selling my car didn’t make transportation an easy thing.
So I guess what I’m trying to say is that… I am grateful and thankful for seeing all my friends and being back in the states, but I just have sooo much to do (a lot I put on myself) that I am feeling pretty overwhelmed right now. Also I wanted to post a sample of all the things that are going on and kinda express the strain it’s putting on me because there’s ALWAYS the good and the bad. Right now I feel kinda stressed, but I’m sure when the film I’m putting together is finished I will post about it and feel really good.
The other point I want to make is that when you see something really cool and awesome, keep in mind, that there is probably another side to that coin.. which is that you have to give up something or some things to get that result.
The last thing I want to remind myself and it was a good friend that recently mentioned this point – “stop and smell the roses”. It sounds sooo played out to say that.. in fact, what does it even mean?? …and yes, I know it means ‘take the time to enjoy the journey’ or ‘calm down and realize what is truly important’. However… it’s easy to spit out those regurgitated words without truly internalizing what it means. So for me, in my life today, I especially need to stop and smell the roses and stay passionate doing what I’m doing.
If you’ve read this far… thanks for reading and sharing in a part of my spouting for today.
- Alfred






















